My suggestion therefore would be to wait for the blood clot to clear or be surgically removed, before trying to treat the hemroid. This next hemorrhoids picture again appears to be of external hemorrhoid, and another thank you to the owner for providing it. Being an external hemroid, I would likely use either Heal Heorrhoids or Neo Healar for it, as they are the cheaper alternatives. Prior to the blood clot, the hemroid may have been the same size as the smaller one.
The donor of this photo described the pain as agonizing and was off to see a doctor for it.
Even the most innocent household item which is frequently used my the whole family can become an interesting homemade sex toy. One of these items that does not require any modifications is the shower head.
Take note that it has to be the flexible one you can move around the bathtub or shower cubicle, and not the fixed shower head coming directly out of the wall. This works a hundred times better than most commercial vibrators i have bought as i am in full charge of the temperature and strength of the water than comes out of it: think of it from being able to choose between a cold drizzle and a hot, steamy jet of warm water.